Just in time

Even the most put together people fall apart sometimes, the most successful ones too. I do not pretend to be anything that I am not, and I most certainly am not perfect. I am a firm believer in going through the process and being true to your feelings even if that means completely falling apart.Continue reading “Just in time”

What it means to me to be a woman

It’s women’s month and at the beginning of this month everything was sunshine and happiness, but as the month went by it became lots of rain for me. Life has taken a difficult turn and all because that what life does. It goes up and down and its how we deal with the storms thatContinue reading “What it means to me to be a woman”

It’s time to change your perspective

I recently have been going through many challenges at work that I could not really change and required a shift in perspective. We can’t really control anything but ourselves and we can only make changes within to get through challenges that face us. Covid 19 has been a challenge for many, increasing the unemployment rateContinue reading “It’s time to change your perspective”

I am not afraid to stand up for what I believe in.

Happy womens month to all the beautiful women in the world. I have DECIDED to dedicate this month to something I hold close to my heart. I have never truly been expressive of how deeply I feel regarding the topic of Gender based violence along with women and children abuse! I am going to beginContinue reading “I am not afraid to stand up for what I believe in.”

My process of change

I feel like I’m in the process of change. I know this because the last time I was in this season it felt exactly like this one. I am fidgety, I feel dissatisfied, its like I know that I need growth, I know that I need to add more essence but more importantly remove whatContinue reading “My process of change”

Finding Passion and excitement

I had a conversation this week regarding my journey of finding passion or being excited about life. I remembered a time when I found excitement uncomfortable, I did not express passion for anything or excitement. I lost my freedom to be excited when I got let down almost every single time something excited me. ThisContinue reading “Finding Passion and excitement”

Blocked

I promised myself that if I’m going to do this it’s always going to be an authentic journey both for me and for those who choose to read my posts. Sometimes I stare at a blank screen and have no idea what I want to share with you and sometimes my energy and words flowContinue reading “Blocked”

Sexy time

Isn’t it so sexy when you see a person that takes care of themselves even in the midst of chaos? When the peace that flows through them is so apparent that u just wanna be close to them so you can maybe catch some of that energy flow and hopefully just hopefully get a glimpseContinue reading “Sexy time”

Choose life

It’s so easy to fall into the trap that people have set up for us. Where we find ourselves blindly following and obsessing over things that we have been convinced actually matter. Like money and having lots of it. Yes, I know, money makes life easier and I’m not saying that money is bad, howContinue reading “Choose life”

Free flow

My mother tells a story of me helping my drunken neighbor, who had passed out on the pavement next to our house. I was young about 13 years old and he needed help, so I helped him. Do I remember this incident? Absolutely not, do I believe her? Absolutely, because I know that my heart today could never leave a neighbor on the ground when I could help, so my innocent (ish) 13 year old self would definitely not be able to let that go. Why am I telling you this story? Because today I decided to just let whatever comes out of me come out freely and that I will share it with you without being too concerned with what the neighbors will think or the church will think or just anyone really. My life is my life and all this shame that people feel they need to force on me and on you is just not cool.