Embrace the cycle

Everything always works out in the end, even if it seems like they wont at the time. I struggle with patience when it comes to things out of my control, patience is a tricky one for me. When it comes to people, I have all the patience in the world, when it doesn’t really affectContinue reading “Embrace the cycle”

Emotional safety

Today I want to talk about something very close to my heart. When I was 8 years old I met my best friend, When I was 34 years old I lost her. She died in a car accident. We fought like crazy, for everything, but one thing I could always count on was that sheContinue reading “Emotional safety”

It’s time to change your perspective

I recently have been going through many challenges at work that I could not really change and required a shift in perspective. We can’t really control anything but ourselves and we can only make changes within to get through challenges that face us. Covid 19 has been a challenge for many, increasing the unemployment rateContinue reading “It’s time to change your perspective”

I am Emily

Emily is a random name chosen by me to tell the true story of how women in our society are abused. Through this month I will continue to tell real life stories of women that have had to endure the pain and suffering of being abused by men. These are not all stories about myContinue reading “I am Emily”

Reset

I read somewhere that when you focus on a specific thing that it will ultimately find its way to you. I tried this out and funny story, it actually works. I drew up a list and 2 years later after zoning in on my list as often as possible most of the things on thatContinue reading “Reset”

Just for me

This piece is about my vision for my life, for myself and how I feel so close to it that I can taste it, but something holds me back and I never seem to grab a hold of the things that are right in front of me, the things that are meant for me, butContinue reading “Just for me”

Blocked

I promised myself that if I’m going to do this it’s always going to be an authentic journey both for me and for those who choose to read my posts. Sometimes I stare at a blank screen and have no idea what I want to share with you and sometimes my energy and words flowContinue reading “Blocked”

Choose life

It’s so easy to fall into the trap that people have set up for us. Where we find ourselves blindly following and obsessing over things that we have been convinced actually matter. Like money and having lots of it. Yes, I know, money makes life easier and I’m not saying that money is bad, howContinue reading “Choose life”

Share your light

Fear is ruling the world at the moment, people are afraid of the unknown, they always have been and probably always will be. People that allow fear to be their ruler are dangerous people, because fear is from darkness and it tries to put out the light that shines in all of us. But allContinue reading “Share your light”

When _______ creeps in, keep calm and just smile.

So today is day 16 of South Africa’s official lock down but day 26 of my self isolation and now things are starting to get interesting. It’s time for me to start looking into how the bills will get paid with me not being able to work a single day in the month of April.Continue reading “When _______ creeps in, keep calm and just smile.”