I’ve spent most of my life not liking myself. For many reasons of course … it started when I was a little girl, because when someone older than you tells you that you are bad […]
Category: Notes to self
Just me making mental notes and sharing them with you
Lending and spending
I’m writing this post because, well, I was asked to by my dear friend after having this conversation with her this morning. She felt that she needed it in black and white so here goes. […]
I am important too
I love taking care of others. I love the feeling of loving other people through whatever it is that they need. It brings me joy to know that I am a source of safety to […]
Growth in self
It’s been almost two months since I have moved into my new space and in that time so much has changed for me already with regards to mind body and soul. Sharing a small room […]
Distractions
I haven’t been writing as much as I did when I started off this year, I’ve been distracted with so many different things lately and what I found is that the thing I once looked […]
My wish
I wish the world was kinder to those in need. That people treated everyone like people and didn’t decide who deserves to be treated better than the next. I wish that husbands repescted their wives […]
Emotional
Why do we pretend that we are ok when we are not? What is it about us that makes us feel like we have to pretend. Is it not socially acceptable to feel anymore? Smile […]
Gratitude
I often remind my 10 year old daughter of how much more she will get out of life if she is grateful. She often has this idea that she is entitled to many things of […]
Grace in spades
The word grace has so many meanings it can make your head spin. Growing up we said ‘grace’ before every meal eaten to give thanks for the food provided for us to eat. Being thankful […]
Have no fear
I always worried that nobody would be interested in what I have to say. When I look at the blog in the afternoon and the views are low it makes me feel somewhat despondent, but […]
Birthday month
I don’t want to blend in any more, I used to make it my mission to never stand out in a crowd. This was tough considering I’m taller than the average female and bigger built […]
Relationship status
One of my very supportive followers mentioned to me that I should write a piece giving relationship advice. Knowing very well my response would be “I am THE LAST PERSON”to give relationship advice. As a […]
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