The concept of being has popped up alot for me and I really believe in signs and messages being sent to you and have learnt to listen when they pop up. It all started with […]
Stand for something
I had a conversation with my daughter not so long ago, she was upset because people got fiesty with her when she chose to do the right thing, but it meant that those that were […]
The Centre of it all
So much goes through my mind on a daily basis, and in the centre of it all what does it all mean really? Why does my mind wonder off into the sunset so often, drifting […]
Consistency is key
Have a listen to my latest episode of My peeping light podcast 😊 https://anchor.fm/my-peeping-light/episodes/Consistency-is-key-e11k21u Love and light
Healthy boundaries
Having the theory in your mind doesn’t mean that you know what you are doing. I have lots of theoretical explanations and methods to overcome all sorts of challenges that I face on a daily […]
My Sunday Reflections
I always like to take some time, when I’m not frantically trying to balance everything life throws at me, to reflect on where I’m at in the greater scheme of my life. Today I feel […]
Envisioning Life
I decided that I’m going to teach my daughter how to make a vision board this weekend. It’s a fun exercise that I think we both can benefit from. I feel that we take for […]
Focused on me
I find it so refreshing how finding clarity on situations that were once very confusing brings about peace. I used to worry about things that were out of my control and it took me years […]
It’s good to be alive
After a few weeks of staying in a bubble and healing a few things that needed healing, I stepped out into the world and let some people in again. What I realised is this; the […]
Filling up the tanks
I’ve been sharing my journey with you regarding the quiet space I’ve been in to prepare myself for more to come. I am so greatful for the outpour of support from my wordpress family, it […]
Ready to grow
There’s a dark cloud that hovers over me, I feel like it’s reminding me that we must embrace all seasons in our lives. I can’t just be a ray of sunshine at all times. Don’t […]
Life’s miracle
Just the fact that you are reading this now, breathing, living and sharing your time with me is a miracle on its own. Since you took your first breath, your options became limitless. I know […]
Comfort in uncomfortable places
My greatest challenge so far is the struggle I found myself in trying to escape my comfort zone. You see when comfort settles in we become dependent on it relying on our comfort for all […]
Finding my way
Consistency is key to many things, it’s also something I seem to struggle with… Honestly I get bored when things are too consistent. I want to be fit, and I normally can push myself enough […]
The simple truth
The simple truth is that I am not in the most creative space I’ve ever been in right now. I am pushing boundaries and they are pushing back. I have found myself in a place […]
Natural beauty
Last night I was in awe of the moon, it was so beautiful and there was a ring of light around it. I didnt capture it on a photograph but its definately been captured in […]
My favourite part is you
As the community grows around Tamstame.com, I realise how rewarding this really is. Not only do I get to write my heart and my mind, but then you come along and share yourself with me […]
Close the door
The concept of a door is an interesting one, we created it to give us some form of privacy, so people on the outside cannot see what is happening behind the closed door. It’s not […]
Find value in every space
I value my employment. While I continue to grow my gifts and find ways to fulfill my dreams I have work that sustains me and keeps me afloat financially. Sometimes I have to push myself […]
LOGO
My new logo is a blessing that came with love and from someone who has a full understanding of who I am and what I represent. Tamstame.com is truly a place where I express myself […]
Writing is life
There are so many things that I HAVE to do in this life, writing is NOT one of them. I write because I want to. I write because when I don’t the world gets heavy […]
In it’s time
I wish I knew a little more, of what this world has in store. Not only for me but also you… Isn’t it all just a little blue? To have to wait for everything, even […]
My Peeping Light podcast
https://anchor.fm/my-peeping-light This is the link to my podcast. It can also be found in the menu at the top of this page. I have 13 episodes so far and I’m having so much fun… I […]
Building bridges
What is a bridge? A structure that connects one point to another for different reasons, but mostly for people to cross over easily. I have loved bridges for the longest time, I am drawn to […]
Change is inevitable
I have been bombarded with change this year. It’s coming from all angles and I am quite impressed with how I have learnt to adapt myself to the scenarios playing out around me. At first […]
Facing fear
Pushing a boundary isn’t something that is meant to be easy, but it’s definately something that’s necessary, depending on what boundaries you want to be pushing. It’s human nature to push our limits. We do […]
It’s never too late to change
As March ends I find myself reflecting on so many different things. One issue that sits with me though is that I have definately sacrificed alot of myself in my lifetime for the happiness of […]
If it’s not for me
When something is not for me I have to let it be what it is meant to be and set that thing free to go where it is meant to go. Clinging to things and […]
Why am I afraid to tell you who I am
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Voicenote for my listeners. I wrote this because it is the essence of how I felt with regards to many situations in my life. My relationship with my parents, my relationship…
Appreciation post
This post is specifically to express my utmost appreciation to everyone who has taken the time out to follow me and read my posts. From my very first post until now, the transformation in me […]
Feed your soul too
So many different things feed your soul and I have been making some improvements on getting mine full of just the right amount of nouroshment that it needs. Soul food comes in the form of […]
Stop and breathe
I have had more quiet time than I usually have lately. All by choice, because earlier this year I had a very bad life attack. I have decided to use this lentern period to stop, […]
Finding my flow
In order for me to stay in a healthy flow I have to remember that I have to find the one that works specifically for me. The thing about finding a flow, is that you […]
Mental health
When I started this blog 4 years ago I had no idea what I was doing, clueless, but determined to find my voice. I keep talking about finding my voice because I want you to […]
Be better
I know that my heart wants to be in another place doing more, but I also know that every step I take leads me to that direction that I envision in my mind. The direction […]
The Road Less Travelled
For most of my existence I have always chosen the road most travel. The one that blends me in and keeps me unnoticed. I have always tried my best to stay in the shadows of […]
Who am I?
I would like to think of myself as a reader, mostly because when I do read, it’s really enjoable for me and I look forward to the next book I manage to get my hands […]
Yesterday Today Tomorrow
Life’s not always going to be an upward movement, you have to come down at some point. I’ve learnt to always appreciate my ups, because I never know when they going to end. February was […]
The Podcast – My Peeping Light
Today I did a thing… I finally published my podcast! I called it My peeping light because as you all would know by now based on my posts im obsessed with light. Finding light, watching […]
Flowers in the wind
Changing yourself to improve and to become closer to the you that you envision, is not the easiest task. I love how when you go to motivational talks, everything that’s said there is valid and […]
Life’s reward
When you do something for yourself, it is good, because if you don’t take care of you then everything around you will suffer, but, when you do something for someone else, it is better, because […]
Your Chaos, my calm
It’s not my responsibility to find order in your chaos. This is an interesting statement, discussed by a friend of mine a few days ago. For two people that are constantly trying to keep things […]
ENOUGH
Sometimes spiraling out of control is needed in order to see how destructive and chaotic it can be to your life. It doesn’t happen in a day, but little by little, one bad choice at […]
We need to heal together
Covid – 19 has placed a dark cloud on the world. It has brought the reality of death closer as we lose our loved ones everyday. Death is everyone’s reality, it always has been and […]
Responsibility
We all want to succeed at life, we want the best and we want it it now… if only it all worked that way! Everything takes time, everything takes work and without hard work and […]
Two faced
‘He found out for the first time what she really thought of him by hearing her talk behind his back, and it broke his heart.’ This has been playing on my mind so much since […]
Value in everything
Every day I learn something new about myself. Today I realised that I don’t need to feel important anymore. what I mean is, I have humbled myself to the insignificance of my being in comparison […]
Don’t hold back
Ever since I was a little girl I always said I wanted to adopt a child. It has never actually materialised because life took over and none of my white picket fence dreams actually came […]
Solid foundation
It’s liberating to reach a place of freedom. When you realise that the smallest wins are taking you to a positive place and you find yourself changing the smallest parts of yourself and finding out […]
