Don’t be fooled by the outer confidence of anyone, no matter how great their confidence appears to be, they are still only in control of themselves and the world can at any point throw anything […]
Look for the Light in your life
I’ve based everything that I dedicate myself to in the name of finding light in the dark spaces of my mind. The dark spaces are definitely there, but after many many years of living in […]
Value in Now
I have had to learn to find value in all situations that I face, even the ones I rather not confront. The value in the present moment is irreplaceable, indescribable and just priceless. Why do […]
Just for Me
Not everything I write gets posted on here because some things are meant to be just for me, and that’s ok. As much as I have decided sharing myself with the world is part of […]
Footsteps of Peace
It’s really rewarding to see the fruits of your efforts. I don’t want to say of my labour, because I don’t really feel like it’s been laboursome when I’m doing what I love. In this […]
Grow and Flow
Learning how to navigate yourself through growth is vital to the outcome you desire at the end of the road. Growth in any form is an uncomfortable process and the discomfort is universal not selective. […]
The Scary Unknown
I totally get why people like to stay in their bubbles of comfort. It’s safe in there, for real. I have personal experience on the safety of the comfort bubble. It has been my companion […]
God is my Key
Recently I wrote a piece to celebrate my achievements. I felt like a pat on the back was due and it was. Today I was to celebrate something bigger than myself. Today I want to […]
Celebrating Tamstame’
Today I am celebrating myself. I have overcome so many hurdles in my life and I really don’t think I give myself enough credit for making it this far. The fact that I made it […]
Transformation
It appears this transformation I am currently in the middle of has reached a comfortable momentum. I genuinely struggled to get the push I needed to lift off the ground. Who knew that the weight […]
Leave it Behind
Being such a sentimental person, I tend to hold onto things that once meant something to me or remind me of a time in the very distant past. I had a dream the other night […]
Podcast: She Bleeds but shes a Survivor
Please have a listen to my latest episode on My peeping light Podcast talking about my experience and feelings regarding the unrest that took place last week. https://iono.fm/e/1088337 Thank you for all the support and […]
She Bleeds, but She’s a Survivor
I live in a country full of passion, vibrance and beauty. She holds so much value not only on her land but in her people. My country, the land of South Africa. She has laughed, […]
What the Heart Desires
It’s so important to have a dream. Something that you look forward to in your fututre. Something to motivate your days. A vision, a wish, a goal. I have said many times that I was […]
Podcast on potential
https://anchor.fm/my-peeping-light/embed/episodes/Potential-e13ujm9 Have a listen to My peeping light podcast😊😊😊
Potential
I’ve been really focused on learning for the last 2 weeks, looking up what I can to fill me with information about everything I am curious about. I’ve grown in many ways in just 2 […]
My View on Time Management
I’ve never really had too much of an issue with managing my time, unless I’ve taken on more than I am able to chew on, then that’s an entirely different story. I don’t do this […]
Still playing with podcasting😊
My latest podcast on Mastering me is based on the post I wrote yesterday. Have a listen and let me know what you think. https://anchor.fm/my-peeping-light/episodes/Mastering-Me-e139hgs Click on the link above if you into podcasting. Love […]
Mastering Me!
Education is so important right? It’s importance has been repeatedly highlighted in my life and I absolutely agree. It is vital to our very survival. However I think the education that you are thinking of […]
Why Are we Puppets
I took the time for myself this weekend, to fill my mind with new information and to just learn new things about everything thats life. As I always am on a path to mastering myself, […]
Decide who you are
The concept of being has popped up alot for me and I really believe in signs and messages being sent to you and have learnt to listen when they pop up. It all started with […]
Stand for something
I had a conversation with my daughter not so long ago, she was upset because people got fiesty with her when she chose to do the right thing, but it meant that those that were […]
The Centre of it all
So much goes through my mind on a daily basis, and in the centre of it all what does it all mean really? Why does my mind wonder off into the sunset so often, drifting […]
Consistency is key
Have a listen to my latest episode of My peeping light podcast 😊 https://anchor.fm/my-peeping-light/episodes/Consistency-is-key-e11k21u Love and light
Healthy boundaries
Having the theory in your mind doesn’t mean that you know what you are doing. I have lots of theoretical explanations and methods to overcome all sorts of challenges that I face on a daily […]
My Sunday Reflections
I always like to take some time, when I’m not frantically trying to balance everything life throws at me, to reflect on where I’m at in the greater scheme of my life. Today I feel […]
Envisioning Life
I decided that I’m going to teach my daughter how to make a vision board this weekend. It’s a fun exercise that I think we both can benefit from. I feel that we take for […]
Focused on me
I find it so refreshing how finding clarity on situations that were once very confusing brings about peace. I used to worry about things that were out of my control and it took me years […]
It’s good to be alive
After a few weeks of staying in a bubble and healing a few things that needed healing, I stepped out into the world and let some people in again. What I realised is this; the […]
Filling up the tanks
I’ve been sharing my journey with you regarding the quiet space I’ve been in to prepare myself for more to come. I am so greatful for the outpour of support from my wordpress family, it […]
Ready to grow
There’s a dark cloud that hovers over me, I feel like it’s reminding me that we must embrace all seasons in our lives. I can’t just be a ray of sunshine at all times. Don’t […]
Life’s miracle
Just the fact that you are reading this now, breathing, living and sharing your time with me is a miracle on its own. Since you took your first breath, your options became limitless. I know […]
Comfort in uncomfortable places
My greatest challenge so far is the struggle I found myself in trying to escape my comfort zone. You see when comfort settles in we become dependent on it relying on our comfort for all […]
Finding my way
Consistency is key to many things, it’s also something I seem to struggle with… Honestly I get bored when things are too consistent. I want to be fit, and I normally can push myself enough […]
The simple truth
The simple truth is that I am not in the most creative space I’ve ever been in right now. I am pushing boundaries and they are pushing back. I have found myself in a place […]
Natural beauty
Last night I was in awe of the moon, it was so beautiful and there was a ring of light around it. I didnt capture it on a photograph but its definately been captured in […]
My favourite part is you
As the community grows around Tamstame.com, I realise how rewarding this really is. Not only do I get to write my heart and my mind, but then you come along and share yourself with me […]
Close the door
The concept of a door is an interesting one, we created it to give us some form of privacy, so people on the outside cannot see what is happening behind the closed door. It’s not […]
Find value in every space
I value my employment. While I continue to grow my gifts and find ways to fulfill my dreams I have work that sustains me and keeps me afloat financially. Sometimes I have to push myself […]
LOGO
My new logo is a blessing that came with love and from someone who has a full understanding of who I am and what I represent. Tamstame.com is truly a place where I express myself […]
Writing is life
There are so many things that I HAVE to do in this life, writing is NOT one of them. I write because I want to. I write because when I don’t the world gets heavy […]
In it’s time
I wish I knew a little more, of what this world has in store. Not only for me but also you… Isn’t it all just a little blue? To have to wait for everything, even […]
My Peeping Light podcast
This is the link to my podcast. It can also be found in the menu at the top of this page. I have 13 episodes so far and I’m having so much fun… I know […]
Building bridges
What is a bridge? A structure that connects one point to another for different reasons, but mostly for people to cross over easily. I have loved bridges for the longest time, I am drawn to […]
Change is inevitable
I have been bombarded with change this year. It’s coming from all angles and I am quite impressed with how I have learnt to adapt myself to the scenarios playing out around me. At first […]
Facing fear
Pushing a boundary isn’t something that is meant to be easy, but it’s definately something that’s necessary, depending on what boundaries you want to be pushing. It’s human nature to push our limits. We do […]
It’s never too late to change
As March ends I find myself reflecting on so many different things. One issue that sits with me though is that I have definately sacrificed alot of myself in my lifetime for the happiness of […]
Why am I afraid to tell you who I am
Originally posted on TAMSTAME':
Voicenote for my listeners. I wrote this because it is the essence of how I felt with regards to many situations in my life. My relationship with my parents, my relationship…
